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Violence in any form is unpardonable.
This is more so in case of domestic
violence. Domestic violence is described
as the violence or abuse that takes
place between family members such as
spouses, boyfriend or girlfriend or
date. Domestic violence is also
expressed in other terms:
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Intimate partner abuse: Abuse by one’s
spouse.
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Family violence: Abuse by any other
family member like father, mother
or children.
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Child abuse: Abuse of a child by parents
or relatives.
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Courtship violence: Abuse by a boy
friend or a girl friend.
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Marital rape: Abuse by a husband or a
wife towards the spouse.
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Date rape: Abuse of a casual
acquaintance.
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Stalking: Violation of privacy by family
members or others.
Domestic violence can happen in various
forms and usually begins by threats or
intimidation. Most times, the abusive
person is a male and the victims are
most often, females. Abusing children,
elders or siblings also come under the
purview of domestic violence.
Forms of domestic violence
As per the research accumulated by the
National Coalition Against Domestic
Violence, domestic abuse has verbose
beginnings like threatening, name
calling, hitting or throwing things. It
slowly graduates to pushing, slapping or
holding against the victim's will. It
worsens when it enters the stage of
kicking, punching or hitting and grows
into a risky behavior like use of
weapons, choking or bone breaking.
Various forms of domestic violence are
as follows:
Physical
– Physically injuring by hitting or
battering which may cause broken bones,
internal hemorrhage leading to death.
This form of abuse is not sudden, it
begins with smaller contact and grows.
Sexual
– This is often accompanied with
physical abuse and culminates in rape or
other form of forced sexual activity.
Psychological or emotional-
Abuse mostly delivered verbally with
words, harassment, threats, forced
isolation, destruction of personal
effects and extreme possessiveness. This
could result in the abuser controlling
the victim's activities, time, and
personal contacts. This can come into
being by interference into supportive
relationships, making road blocks to
daily activities like keeping the car
keys in possession or locking the victim
at home and lying about them to gain
control.
Stalking
– Continuous harassment with threatening
behavior that can lead to sexual or
physical abuse.
Economic
– Controlling the victim’s resources,
especially time, money, food, clothing,
insurance etc, interfering with the self
sufficiency of the victim to create
economic dependency.
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